I am having a big problem with my step children, and I fear its going to wind up in a devorce. I am 45 and have 3 kids all over 20, my wife is 37 and has 4 kids. I am having all kinds of problems with her kids. There is a huge difference between our kids and this does not help. I have what I would call good above average kids. They all went to school got good grades and graduated, my oldest girl is 21, married and has 2 great liitle ones. The next to the oldest also 21 (Dont ask, Im not perfect), is going to Harvard Law School, and my son who is 20 and starts collage for fashion design this fall. All of them no police records or issues with the law.
My wifes kids are all very smart but seem to always find trouble, and just dont seem to have much common sence. The oldest girl is now 19 She is beautiful and very smart (Graduated with honers). She will be having her 3rd baby any day now. She has already lost one to the state, she has graduated but has no interest in collage that I have offerd to help her with. She has been in and out of jail for the last couple of years. The next is a 17 boy who has had a police record since he was 7, and his plans for his life is to walk around the county and live under bridges. (this is no joke, this is from his own lips and he has shown me his maps and plans). Last year he was arrested for grand theft auto. The next one is a 11 year old boy who is in a Hospital for disturbed children, because he is unable to control himself. He has offered to kill me and beat his best friend with a shovel. The last one is a very cute little girl, 10 years old smart as can be, wont do her school work and is being investagated for Sexal Assault on a minor.
All her kids would like to see me gone, they have made this clear. My wife and I have always handled our own kids with the support of the other. We talk about issues and try to help solve problems togather.
Because of all these problems with her kids I have had to go to several parenting classes and meeing and court hearings, it just seems to never end. My whole life seems to be in shambles because I am always being drug into these messes that her kids get into. I have spent every cent I have to help them, and all I here is I am not doing enough. With my kids my wife has not had to do a thing that required any special classes or trials of any kind.
Now her youngest boy keeps telling storys, that I beat him and how I have locked him out in the cold and wont feed him. By the way I have been investegated countless times over all this and they have found nothing, he also does this to his teachers and anybody else that he does not like, But never the less they have told my wife that she may have to choose between me and the boy…….NICE HUH.
This stress is getting to be to much and now I dont know what to do.
I keep trying and trying but dont seem to be going anyware with her kids. I cant seem to figure out what to do. Do I just bow out and let things float away, or do I wait until things just blow up. Just dont know anymore.
The Problem. I LOVE MY WIFE VERY MUCH
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